Gender/self expression

I haven’t shaved my armpits since 1991. I haven’t worn makeup, nor blow-dried my hair, since a few years before then. I have no problem with women who do choose these things (nor with men who choose to look conventionally masculine) but I do object to the gendered cultural expectations we face. I would like to see a world where everyone is openly free and supported to choose their clothing (for example, skirts for men who enjoy them); whether or not to wear makeup; hair length and style; whether/how much to remove facial or body hair; and any other self-presentation that is currently affected by gendered expectations.